When bedtime comes around, does your youngster throw bedtime tantrums? Do they scream, kick, and scream - or perhaps you've got the bedtime escape problem ( they will not stay in their bed ).
Irrespective of the sort of fit, it is disruptive and can cause so much stress in the house that it just appears like giving in is the most effective way to cope with it all. This text will provide some basic info - the method of beating bedtime fits will often need more than a single technique.
Identify The Cause of Bedtime Tantrums
Tantrums are a symptom, not the actual problem. So, to really get things fixed you need to understand the root of the problem. Here are a few possible reasons your child may be throwing tantrums at bedtime:
* Separation Tantrums - Typical in younger children (infants and toddlers) and it has to do with a since of security. Fear is a strong emotion and needs to be handled appropriately.
* Over-Stimulation Tantrums - This is when your child has crossed the line in levels of external activities and they do not know how to cope. They could be over-tired, hungry, or just overwhelmed by all that is going on around them.
* Power Tantrums - Now your child is wanting to see who has the power. They want a little more time, just one more store, a longer bedtime routine - anything to stay up longer.
* Attention Getting Tantrums - These can be pretty extreme, as your child is trying to find a way of keeping you involved in the process.
Reclaim Your Nights
For Separation - don't sneak out. You want to work on reassuring your kid that you're going to be there. Try playing games in the day where you leave and come back. Increase the 'hiding' time and help them learn that you are going to return.
For Over-Stimulation - this one is best to just avoid as much as possible by keeping a routine. Often, a well established bedtime routine can help calm a child down.
For Power - don't give in. As fast as you do, they'll just do a similar thing or more the following night, as it works. Stay calm and remember that you're the parent. Say what you mean and mean what you are saying.
For Attention - This one can take a while outside the bedtime routine to truly fix. It is frequently a need for more centered attention during the day. Try scheduling reading time, play time, chatting time, and just some hug time. Kids need attention, just as we do.
It is rarely Over. - 30443
Irrespective of the sort of fit, it is disruptive and can cause so much stress in the house that it just appears like giving in is the most effective way to cope with it all. This text will provide some basic info - the method of beating bedtime fits will often need more than a single technique.
Identify The Cause of Bedtime Tantrums
Tantrums are a symptom, not the actual problem. So, to really get things fixed you need to understand the root of the problem. Here are a few possible reasons your child may be throwing tantrums at bedtime:
* Separation Tantrums - Typical in younger children (infants and toddlers) and it has to do with a since of security. Fear is a strong emotion and needs to be handled appropriately.
* Over-Stimulation Tantrums - This is when your child has crossed the line in levels of external activities and they do not know how to cope. They could be over-tired, hungry, or just overwhelmed by all that is going on around them.
* Power Tantrums - Now your child is wanting to see who has the power. They want a little more time, just one more store, a longer bedtime routine - anything to stay up longer.
* Attention Getting Tantrums - These can be pretty extreme, as your child is trying to find a way of keeping you involved in the process.
Reclaim Your Nights
For Separation - don't sneak out. You want to work on reassuring your kid that you're going to be there. Try playing games in the day where you leave and come back. Increase the 'hiding' time and help them learn that you are going to return.
For Over-Stimulation - this one is best to just avoid as much as possible by keeping a routine. Often, a well established bedtime routine can help calm a child down.
For Power - don't give in. As fast as you do, they'll just do a similar thing or more the following night, as it works. Stay calm and remember that you're the parent. Say what you mean and mean what you are saying.
For Attention - This one can take a while outside the bedtime routine to truly fix. It is frequently a need for more centered attention during the day. Try scheduling reading time, play time, chatting time, and just some hug time. Kids need attention, just as we do.
It is rarely Over. - 30443
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